So you’ve done your research and you’re fairly confident that the woman you’re with is into you. You’ve spotted the signs that she’s flirting and that she wants to connect with you further, but you’re not sure what to do next – you’re asking, ‘she likes me, now what?’ and possibly feeling rather confused.
There’s no need to be.
Are You Sure She Likes You?
Well now, that’s a question. But it’s an important one to answer. After all, there’s no point in getting all het up about what to do next, and asking, ‘She likes me, now what?’ in a panic, if she’s not really that into you.
Signs to look out for include her being super nice to you – more than she really need to be. Is she smiling a lot (a proper smile that gives her crow’s feet – that’s a true flirty smile)? Does she ‘accidentally’ touch you? Is she copying your movements and body language? That’s usually something subconscious, and can be really subtle, but it’s definitely worth checking. Is she – surprisingly – in all the places you happen to be (not in a stalkerish way, of course, that would be weird)? Does she touch her hair, giggle, show off her breasts and legs a little more than she would to a friend? If any of this is happening, your question is totally valid.
She likes me, now what? It’s possibly one of the most exciting questions a guy will ever ask – it’s so full of possibilities. This could be the beginning of a beautiful relationship. And the key thing to remember is that you should be flirting back. She wants you to know she’s interested, but she also wants to know that you’re interested. Sure, you could go right up to her and tell her, but where’s the romance in that? And women do love a bit of romance.
There are a number of different ways to flirt back. Remember, as long as you remain yourself throughout, the rest is pretty easy. Start by paying her a compliment, and may hold her gaze for a little longer than you might usually do. Copy her body language – now you know what you’re doing, you can do this consciously. Smile! Not only will it make you look more attractive to her, but it will make you seem interested too. Are you funny? It doesn’t even matter – make a joke anyway. Try to get her to laugh. If she’s flirting with you that laugh will come easily.
Take the next step and tease her a little. Don’t be mean! Don’t be cruel! Just be playful. There’s a fine line here, so be careful.
And of course, ask her questions. Finding out about her is important anyway – how else will you know if you’re compatible? But it also shows that you’re interested. Remember to listen to the answer though, or she’ll soon get bored of talking to herself.